How do I?

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For months now I've been looking for a pair of harem pants.

These are my requisites:

1) neutral colour (no black)

2) not the actual harem pants with the elastic at the ankle, but kind of like the slouchy, silky, cargo pants.

I came close today, with a pair of metallic grey ones from Forever New, but I wasn't in the mood.  I think they'll take a few tries, like ankle boots did last year.  Here's some inspiration.